I have depression, but I'm getting better. My motto is: Never cry, for you have given up the fight. Never scream, for you have lost all hope. Never tell them the truth, for you have lost the battle. This means so much to me and I live by it. I'm also bipolar and ADHD so I can be very interesting at times.
Most of my sets don't really center around 'goth' or 'girly' or anything really. I make what I want and what I feel like making. Sometimes it's girly, sometimes it's gothic and morbid, sometimes it's plain and simple. You don't like it, I don't give a shit.